Hi all... Just had my operation 08/02/2005

2007-01-31 23:44:52

Hello,
I was the last one to have my bypass at River West. Everyone has
to go to Vista now. I am going into my 4th week post op and have had
no problems so far.
Last time I weighed in after 2 weeks was almost 20lbs gone. I
haven't weighed lately so i am sure it is more. What I would like to
know is how much do you usually lose before you start slowing down on
losing so fast? 2, 3, or 4 months?
Can anyone tell me what kind of shakes are good for protein? I
take chewable vits.
Thank you for any info.
Ronda

25 GRAMS OF PROTEIN IN 5 SECONDS

2007-01-31 23:17:30

P.S. I KNOW ITS PRICEY. I KNOW ITS NOT FOR EVERYONE, EVERYDAY, BUT I
THOUGHT IT WAS GOOD TO KNOW ABOUT THE PRODUCT.
DIANE

RE: [Dr_Hargroder] 25 GRAMS OF PROTEIN IN LESS THAN 5 SECONDS

2007-01-31 13:34:48

that sounds awesome. if i could get my protein in little "shots" that would
be great.

25 GRAMS OF PROTEIN IN LESS THAN 5 SECONDS

2007-01-31 03:38:28

A POST OP, TWO YEARS OUT, FROM ANOTHER STATE SENT ME THIS TODAY. THERE
IS A SITE ONLINE, PROTICA.COM THAT SELLS LITTLE VIALS THAT ARE LESS
THAN THREE OZ AND HAS 25 GRAMS OF PROTEIN, NO CARBS, NO SUGAR. THEY
HAVE A SAMPLE PACK OF EACH OF THEIR FOUR FLAVORS OR INDIVIDUAL FLAVORS.
THERE IS ALSO A COUPON CODE RIGHT NOW, PR15, FOR 15 PERCENT OFF. I
ORDERED TWO SAMPLE PACKS. THEY WOULD BE GREAT WHEN YOU ARE ON THE GO OR
SIMPLY DONT WANT TO HAVE A PROTEIN DRINK AND STILL HELP GET THE PROTEIN
WE NEED. ANYWAY, I JUST WANTED TO SHARE THIS,
HOPE ALL OF YOU ARE HEALTHLY AND DOING WELL,
DIANE HALL
SDPEACE2U@...

I think my body is turning against me

2007-01-30 22:10:39

Hi folks! Hope all is going well with everyone!
I have this general question of those who have had the gastric
bypass: Have any of you experienced peripheral neuropathy i.e.
numbness or tingling in your feet and lower legs?
If so, what caused it? What did you do for it?
Yes, I have it. For about 3 weeks now. I thoguth it was a pinched
nerve for awhile but it never went away. So I finally went to the
doctor. Got some bloodwork done and I thought it would turn up as a
B12 deficiency. Wrong. My BMP was pretty much normal, other than a
slightly low iron level.
So now I have to get an X-ray & if that shows nothing, he is going
to recommend an MRI. Seems a little extreme for some foot numbness
to me. I have been doing some reading & according to an article from
the Mayo clinic, 16% of gastric bypass patients experience this. It
is attributed to malnutrition and a vitamin deficiency. But my panel
came back fine and I eat like I am supposed to!!
Am I missing something? Is there something they should test for that
is not being included in the standard round of tests?
If the X-ray shows nothing, I will call Dr. Hargroder's office & ask
him if there should be anything special before I jump into an MRI.
But since you all are such a wealth of knowledge, I figured I would
hit you up for any personal experience first.
Thanks so much & have a great day!
Jodi

Re: Beef and Chicken

2007-01-30 14:34:50

Debbie,
Well, I guess my question would be: how are you eating it? Maybe you
should try shredding it or grinding it up?
I have not had a problem with meat, but after surgery, I have a
problem with milk. My stomach tears up whenever I drink it. I would
like to tell you it has gotten better as time has gone on, but I
would
be lying. It has gotten a tiny bit more tolerable, but there is still
a lot of discomfort.
Like I said regarding the meat, maybe if you tried different ways of
preparing it, it might help. Let it slow cook all day, put it in a
soup etc. Experiment a little and see if there is any change in your
body's reaction.
Good luck!
Jodi

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] Beef and Chicken

2007-01-30 12:05:13

HEY EVERYONE,
I AM FIVE WEEKS OUT FROM SURGERY. I STARTED ON THE VITAMINS ABOUT A WEEK AGO FROM DR. MELANCON. THEY MAKE ME FEEL SICK. ALSO I AM HAVING BAD HEADACHES THAT I HAVE NEVER HAD BEFORE. HAS ANYONE ELSE EXPERIENCED THESE AND DID YOU FIND ANYTHING THAT HELPED? I WOULD APPRECIATE ANYTHING YOU GUYS HAVE TO SHARE.
THANKS,
DIANE H.

Beef and Chicken

2007-01-30 06:24:22

Hi all...I am six months out from surgery and am still having a hard time with
Beef
and Chicken. I have tried several times to eat meat but get stomach pains and
nausea. When will this pass???
Debbie

Slipped through

2007-01-30 02:39:17

Hey guys,
Looks like I let one slip through. It appears "curvychicknyc" was a
group from NYC advertising. Sorry. They have been banned from the
group.
Tina
Group Owner

Re: Virgil

2007-01-30 01:57:27

Virgil,
Do you want to tell us anything about yourself? Have you had surgery
yet? Welcome to the group.
Sharon
lap RNY 7/18/03
245/135/135

Virgil

2007-01-29 09:13:03

Thank you Virgil. I missed your intro because I was wrapped up in me, sorry about that. Good luck with your surgery.

Laurie

Re: Lost the baby

2007-01-29 08:56:12

Dear Laurie, I was so sad to hear your news. My heart goes out to you
and your family. Take care of yourself as your body and heart are
recovering.
Sharon

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] green tea andrea from velvet

2007-01-29 01:52:35

I'm always skeptical about "studies" that are
sponsored by the product they are testing.
--- velvet girling <osteonecrosisjaw@...

RE: [Dr_Hargroder] Catching Up

2007-01-28 22:51:32

It is great to hear from you Elaine. I have been MIA lately. Grandbaby, son moved out, weddings, job searching, etc. Way to go on the maintaining. I am heading for 3 years out and have been marinating for over 1 year. I recently have started exercising and it feels great. I hope to make a NuWeigh meeting myself. I too, was shocked to hear about Shaun and Dr. H changes.

See ya soon,

Tina

Breast Cancer 3-Day-Philadelphia

2007-01-28 13:57:43

My name is Christina Pierzga, and I will be participating in the Susan
G. Komen Breast Cancer 3-Day in October held in Philadelphia. In order
to participate in this wonderful event, I have pledged to raise
$2,200.00. I am well on the way to my goal with a total of $1,425.00,
but it's not enough. No money = No walk, and I have been training for
the past five months. Please consider sponsoring me by visiting this
link http://www.the3day.org/philadelphia07/beautfulgirl which will
take you directly to my fundraising webpage. Help me to help others in
the fight against this disease. Thank You~

RE: [Dr_Hargroder] Lost the baby

2007-01-28 11:22:34

Laurie,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers.

Tina

Lost the baby

2007-01-28 03:28:37

Just wanted to let ya'll know I lost the baby.

Laurie

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Catching Up

2007-01-27 16:03:40

Hello everyone, hope you are all doing well.

If you work in email everyday, then you may find you are like me and not in a hurry to rush home and get back into email again. The job has had me traveling for the past six weeks and I am just now catching up on all the news.

I am reading lots of exciting news - new members to the Century Club, new members each loosing their way to a better life, hearing from Gunter from Germany, seeing new members being approved for surgery, a new baby on the way and Linda almost ready for a tummy tuck (I am green with envy).

I could hardly believe my eyes when I read that Shaun was no longer with the hospital and Dr. Hargroder was no longer doing surgery at Riverwest. I am sorry to hear that, the staff and hospital was wonderful to me during my brief stay with them almost 2 years ago.

September 16 will be my 2 year anniversary. I have lost 110 pounds and continue to maintain withinin a couple of pounds for over a year. I had my annual physical a couple of weeks ago and the nurse needed to weigh me. In the past this would have freaked me out but she set the scale to where I was last year and when I stepped on the scale - it DID NOT move. I was so excited I could hardly contain myself. Never, ever have I been able to maintain a weight loss for more than a month or two and most and now it has been 1 year. Praise the Lord for this miracle in my life.

Ok, enough blabbing from me. Will try to make one of the meeting at NuWeigh when I get off the road. Hope to see you all there.

Elaine

Re: Climbing out of my hole

2007-01-27 08:57:24

Glad to see you back...You have done a terrific job! My loosing
seems to be very slow also but I am so excited and pumped about
continueing with the journey. Every day is a new adventure...

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] Congrats to everyone

2007-01-27 08:41:57

Hi Linda

Great to hear from you. I am happy to hear your daughter is recovering well. And it sounds like you are doing pretty good yourself. I know the wedding is keeping you busy, but just think what it would have been like 2 years ago. Oh and yes I will hit the 2 yr. mark on 8/26. That is a day I will never forget. The time has flown by.

You will be in my prayers. I know you will be fine for your surgery. That is something I need to do one day. I would love to get rid of the lose skin.

Take care and keep in touch.

Bubba

Climbing out of my hole

2007-01-27 01:25:12

Hi there folks! Good to hear so many positive things happening in
everyone's life! Babies, lots of pounds gone, weddings and a TUMMY
TUCK! Very cool!
For all those who are new, or just like re-reading the Reader's
Digest version of my life story, here it is. My name is Jodi. I had
gastric bypass at RiverWest on October 5 of 2005. I was 270 pounds
at 5'9". I am 30 years old and have 2 young uns.
Currently, I have lost 91 pounds. 29 more to go. I lost 25-30 the
first month and then averaged about 10 pounds per month after
that... until about mid-May or June. Then I just stopped. I have
been 185 (give or take 2-3 pounds weekly) for 2 and 1/2 months. Very
frustrating, but I kept plugging away. And this past weekend, I
FINALLY hit 179! Woo hoo!
I drink an Isopure shake for breakfast, a sandwich for lunch, a
protein bar for snack and a regular supper. No sugar, because it
makes me sick as a dog. I take a multi-vitamin, an Iron tablet, a B-
12 and Calcium. I drink water constantly!
Most importantly, I FEEL TERRIFIC!!
What I would like to emphasize to everyone & anyone is that THERE IS
NO STANDARD FOR LOSING WEIGHT. Some lose faster than others. Guys
usually lose faster. Those with more to lose will lose faster.
Regardless, it is NOT a race. PLEASE do not judge your success based
on someone else's weight loss. You cannot compare because all bodies
are different.
At the rate I am going, I will be lucky if I have lost 100 by my one-
year mark. But you know what? It is okay. Because I am following my
diet pretty well, and if this is what it takes for my body to do,
then so be it. There are TONS of people who have had their surgery
after me and have lost more than me, but if I were to let that get
me down, I would never want to get out of bed.
The point is, enjoy the journey. It is a great gift you have been
given, so do your best and let that be good enough.
Alrighty, I am shutting up now.
Have a great day all!
Jodi
RNY 10/5/05
270/179/150

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] Climbing out of my hole

2007-01-26 20:32:32

THANKS JODI,
I HAD MY SURGERY ALMOST 3 WEEKS AGO. I PRINTED OUT YOUR LETTER SO I CAN REFER TO IT IN THE FUTURE WHEN I AM STUCK OR NEED INSPIRATION. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.
STAY STRONG,
DIANE H.

Re: 105 lbs less of me!!!! :-)

2007-01-26 17:49:54

I was wondering what all the noise was...congratulations Ron, you are a
different
person.

Congrats to everyone

2007-01-26 09:35:14

Hi all:
Well, well, well. It looks like we have a bunch of happy campers out
there! Congrats to Laurie on the baby. And to Ron and Debbie for
reaching new milestones. What a blessing, huh? And Bubba, you are
about to reach the 2 year mark this month. I will too in September.
Where did the time go? Where did all that poundage go? Who cares -
because those days are OVER! If you all are like me, you are out there
living life to the fullest. I watched some old video of a party we
had, and I saw myself on it, and truly did not recognize myself! OMG!
What a shocker!
Well, we are counting down to my daughter's wedding on the 27th, and
then on September 6 I am having my tummy tuck. I want you all to think
of me on that day and say a little prayer for me!! I am not afraid,
but you know how it is to go under the knife. My daughter is
recovering well from the motorcycle accident, so we have much to be
thankful for.
Take care everybody, Linda

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] 105 lbs less of me!!!! :-)

2007-01-26 00:11:24

CONGRATULATIONS, RON!!!!! I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU! I HAD MY SURGERY ALMOST THREE WEEKS AGO. I LOVED HEARING YOUR GREAT RESULTS, I HOPE I HAVE THE SAME.
STAY STRONG,
DIANE HALL

105 lbs less of me!!!! :-)

2007-01-25 15:33:31

Hello everyone! I just wanted to see if everyone could hear me
screaming from Zachary today. I haven't weighed for 2 weeks now and
as of today there is 105 lbs less of me. It will be 4 months on
August 12th and I am in awe. I can't believe it. I feel so much
better. My life is wonderful. I am a different man!!! All I can say
to everyone out there starting there journey is a quote from
Bubba, "walk, walk, walk, and water, water, water!" It works. Also,
leave out all the white food stuff. Well, except potatoes! I also
use proteinx liquid. It's sugar free and does the job. No nasty
shakes for me. I have posted a new picture of me taken last week.
Have a great day and I hope everyone is as high on life as I am these
days.
Ron
330 (4-12-05) / 225 (8-07-05)

Re: What a Stinker

2007-01-25 13:13:40

Jill,
Apparently you have received quite a few comments on this, but I
haven't read them yet, so I will add my 2 cents. I think this
problem may be common. I remember someone in another group asking
about this and others agreed. I used some super strength Mennon anti-
perspirant Product. I had a problem though, I developed a fungus
from using this strong of an anti-perspirant. My doctor had me stop
the anti-perspirant and use just a deodorant. Slowly the fungus went
away and so did the smell. I do perspire though, but not abundantly.
My daughter just told me a story about a women who had this surgery
and her doctor told her not to rub her body very roughly after the
surgery for 6 months. There was something (my daughter didn't know
what) that can be aggavated right after surgery of this kind. Then
the woman developed a fungus that covered her skin. Really badly.
Bad enough that she is getting all her "tucks" done covered by
insurance because some of her skin surface needs to be removed. This
sounds like a made up story or a misunderstood story to me, but I
thought I would pass it along in case there is any truth to it.
Then I remember a lot of people complaining about bad breath, myself
included. It probably has to do with our high protein diet. My
teeth get grungy easily. There is a product called "Smart Mouth"
that I have seen for sale at KMart for $11.99. Someone said this
stuff was great.
I don't know if this helps, but maybe your surgeon or his/her
assistant might be able to help. If you find anything out, let us
know.
Lizanne

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] Pregnant

2007-01-25 04:25:40

i have a friend that got pg at 3 months post op. did great

just had to eat every two hours. didn't gain any extra weight

how far out r u post op?

Re: Pregnant

2007-01-25 02:47:10

CONGRATULATIONS!! A baby is always a blessing. There's a message board
on obesityhelp.com just for people who are pregnant or trying to get
pregnant after WLS. Check it out! I'm not sure where it is on the
site. I think you go to the "communities" section.
Sharon

Re: 80 pounds gone...

2007-01-24 18:48:41

I have seen that place but never ventured in...now I will have to take a peek.

Pregnant

2007-01-24 15:22:04

Hey guys I have news, not sure if its good or not. I am pregnant due
April 13th.
Any other post op mommys out there?

Re: two years post op

2007-01-24 10:46:14

Hello Gunter,
It's great to hear from you. I met you at a meeting at River West
right before you moved back to Germany. I am so happy that you are
doing well. Thanks for posting!
Sharon

I've got an idea

2007-01-24 00:07:31

Hi folks
maybe this isn't the place but Marianne will tell me/us, why don't we draw up
a list of follow up exams, tests, scans etc that we as BC cancer patients
expect, no, demand, to be carried out after having BC for the first five years
(or longer) of after care.
The idea is that uninformed patients would then know if their oncos were doing
all that was possible. I know there are standards/guidelines but mainly they are
to do with a few practices like tamoxifen/aromatase inhibitors for five years, X
amount of follow up clinic appointments, nothing about when to have scans and
which type. Just because an onco sees you 3 monthly doesn't mean to say that
he/she is carrying out all the monitoring that is available, and we all know
seeing someone and asking them if they have any new symptoms isn't the same as
scanning someone. Scanning serves two purposes, they tell you what is going on
and give a base line for the future.
Personally I believe follow up care is based largely on what the patient
reports (as well as blood tests) and we all know some patients are more in tune
with their bodies than others ~ how many times have we thought, thats funny I
had that (whatever) before' then pass it off as, 'oh well I did so and so the
other day,' or we immediately think it is a cancer site developing. We can be
quick to notice something but sometimes slow in reporting.
If we knew that we were being thoroughly followed up with all the appropriate
diagnostic approaches, wouldn't we be feeling a whole lot easier in our minds?
Wouldn't it be reassuring to know that an onco has to/we expect, perform certain
preventative monitoring examinations as a matter of course. Couldn't we then
switch off from cancer and enjoy life to the full knowing that all that should
be done was being done instead of the lottery system that largely exists.
I feel not enough is considered during the first five years of
monitoring/follow up. It seems to me that much depends on the patient reporting
changes ~ well what if you don't?
Maybe a patient doesn't want to 'bother' the doc, we feel 'silly' bringing so
and so to their attention, how many times have we been to the dr and began with,
'it's maybe nothing but I have this pain (whatever)' Often we can be a bit
reticent in mentioning something.
If we had a leaflet telling us what to expect and when, with short
descriptions of each and how they figure in the monitoring process, wouldn't
that ease a whole lot of minds? We could sit back and relax knowing that
standards of practice were being met.
Further, if we draw up a list of monitoring practices for follow up care I
could certainly pursue this in the UK with the medical profession to take
onboard. Anyone for pursuing USA?
With so many resources available nowadays there is no reason on this earth why
anyone should 'slip through the net'
The idea came from Jan K, apart from her being one adorable lady, concerned
about everyone else and always, I have been thinking about the stress she is
undergoing, she is wondering if her onco is good enough, is she being monitored
thoroughly/appropriately, well she is not alone, there are many out there with
the same concerns, ~ let's help them.
Feedback please,
LOL Velvet x (UK)

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] two years post op

2007-01-23 15:40:23

GUNTER,
I AM SO HAPPY TO HEAR YOU ARE DOING SO WELL. I HAD MY SURGERY TWELVE DAYS AGO. I WAS ALSO INTERESTED THAT YOU ARE FROM GERMANY, MAN, DR. HARGRODER'S REPUTATION DOES EXCEED ITSELF, HE IS GREAT! HOW MUCH WEIGHT HAVE YOU LOST TOTAL , IF YOU DONT MIND MY ASKING?
TAKE CARE,
DIANE

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] 80 pounds gone...

2007-01-23 15:06:59

DEBBIE,
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! I HONESTLY DONT REMEMBER WHEN I WORE A SIZE 14, IT MUST FEEL GOOD. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND TAKE CARE,
DIANE

80 pounds gone...

2007-01-23 04:20:39

Today is my 80 pounds gone mark, just a little over 5 months...only 70 to go to
reach my goal. I did a little "clearance rack" shopping this weekend and got a
pair of pants size 14 (yippee)!!!
Debbie

two years post op

2007-01-22 22:32:23

Hello friends,
I'd like to say hello from Germany. Is about one year since we left
Louisiana. Everything is fine and we're looking forward to come end of
september for a vacation.
I'm now 2 years an one month post op and I feel very well. My life
style is almost normal but sometimes I still have the dumping syndrom.
My weight rose a bit in the last winter (6 pounds). Now I have 165
pounds and it's quit stable over the last several month. I'm so happy
that I did the surgery and I can suggest to everybody to do the same.
Have a nice day and success in weightloss.
Gunter

Wednesday night schedule

2007-01-22 19:50:24

Hey everyone,
I'm not sure who might be planning on attending the support group
meeting at NeWeigh tonight, but I thought I'd post some "pre-meeting"
dinner plans some of us have.
Tonight's meetings at NeWeigh are as follows: "newbies" and pre-ops
meet from 6-7pm, the "oldies, but goodies" (over 91 days out) meet
from 7:15-8:15pm.
A few of us are getting together before the second meeting (we must
be "oldies" eh?) for dinner. ALL are welcome to join us. We're
meeting between 5:45 - 6:00 at Izzo's Illegal Burritos (Bluebonnet &
Jefferson). Then, we'll proceed to the meeting at NeWeigh, which is
just a hop, skip and jump from there.
Looking forward to seeing any/all of you that care to join us!
Georgia

Re: I HAD MY SURGERY

2007-01-22 11:28:40

Diane W.
I am praying for you. You've been waiting for a long time. It took
me 5 months to get approval so I can relate to your plight. Hang in
there! It's worth it.
Sharon

Re: [WLS Friendship &amp; Support] Honeymoon period

2007-01-22 11:25:27

Lizanne,
I got the 12-18 mionths from my surgeon but he was probably including the
"whole" window of opportunity. It doesn't seem fair that you are not losing. One
point they made at the obesity help conference is that you can't put on muscle
unless you're taking in about 1200 cal. I know the information Kaiser gives us
is to work up to 1200 cal post-op. Could it be that your body is in starvation
mode and maybe you need some extra calories? I don't know if that's the answer
but I'd love to know what finally works for you. I hope your scale starts to
move in the right direction soon.
Debby
lizanneflowers <lizanneflowers@...
It's funny that you both should say 12-18 months. I never heard
that. It's always been 6 months in everything I have read. I have
only been losing around a pound or less a week for about a month and
a half now. I have added more exercise, eaten close to 65 gr of
protein, I take my vitamins and minerals and I eat around 1000
calories. To gain weight after following all the rules and adding
more exercise, just seems unfair, but who says life is fair?!?!?
Lizanne

RE: [Dr_Hargroder] I HAD MY SURGERY

2007-01-22 00:47:10

Great you got through everything and your back home. Why aren't you feeling
well. Are you hurting, bloated, just the mental part of all of it?

Taxol Chest pains?

2007-01-21 18:04:56

I had my first Taxol IV 6 days ago and have been feeling a little
yucky, but not bad enough to curtail the usual mundane chores and
housekeeping. Then, this morning I had an hour of very stron chest
pains. I rested and the pain went away but I'm a little (very)
concerned and will talk with my oncologist about this tomorrow
morning. Could be anything from a heart attack to a tight braband
(hopefully the latter!).
If I knew that could pay for ER, I'd have called an ambulance but
fortunately resting was enough for now.
Has anyone else had this kind of chest pain on Taxol?
Kathy
in Tokyo

I HAD MY SURGERY

2007-01-21 13:38:29

HI EVERYONE, I HAD MY SURGERY AND I AM BACK HOME. ACTUALLY NOT FEELING
VERY WELL. IF ANYONE HAS ANY HINTS OR SUGGESTIONS FOR ME, I WELCOME ALL!
DR. HARGRODER AND DR. MELANCON ARE WONDERFUL. EVERYONE AT VISTA IS
UNBELIEVABLE. I THINK THEY MUST BE ALL HAND PICKED. SOME OF THE FINEST,
CARING, TALENTED PEOPLE I HAVE EVER MET, I TRULY MEAN THAT. EXCELLENT,
EXCELLENT CARE! I JUST PRAY THAT I WILL START FEELING BETTER. I DONT
KNOW HOW LONG IT TAKES.
THANKS FOR LISTENING,THANKS FOR THE PRAYERS AND WELL WISHES,
DIANE

Re: MY SURGERY, DIANE HALL, SDPEACE2U, 7/20/2005, 9:00 am

2007-01-21 07:41:11

Diane, I am thinking of you today...excited for you to start this new
journey!!! Hold on because you are in for the ride of your life...it
will be great for sure.
Debbie

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] MY SURGERY, DIANE HALL, SDPEACE2U, 7/20/2005, 9:00 am

2007-01-21 02:42:41

Wow!

I didn't know there were reminders on this site. This is great. I will be thinking about you and praying for you through this time. You are in the best of hands between Hargroder, Melancon and the staff at Vista. Congrats!
Cherie

MY SURGERY, DIANE HALL, SDPEACE2U, 7/20/2005, 9:00 am

2007-01-20 22:03:25

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Dr_Hargroder
MY SURGERY, DIANE HALL, SDPEACE2U
Wednesday July 20, 2005
9:00 am - 10:00 am
This event does not repeat.
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Re: VISTA SURGICAL CENTER

2007-01-20 13:45:18

I also had mine at Vista and I was impressed with everything. I am
an RN so I know what to look for! It was great. I was especially
comforted that everything was large enough and I never felt awkward
about my weight when I was there. The staff was first-rate too.
Diane, I got your email and I will write back soon. I have to work
this weekend. I'd love to share with you.
Sharon

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] Rumors

2007-01-20 13:08:26

Hey guy, This is great. I appreciate your help again as usual. You're the best.

Cindy

RE: [Dr_Hargroder] VISTA SURGICAL CENTER

2007-01-20 02:25:03

My surgery was at Vista and everyone there is wonderful. The staff was
great the room was comfy.... It was like a vacatoin :o)

VISTA SURGICAL CENTER

2007-01-19 18:08:14

I AM HAVING WLS BY DR. HARGRODER THIS WEDNESDAY, JULY 20, IT SEEMS ALL
I HAVE READ HAVE HAD IT AT RIVERWEST?
ANYONE OUT THERE HAD IT AT VISTA SURGICAL CENTER?
WOULD LOVE TO KNOW AND KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT THERE,
THANKS AND LOVE,
DIANE

Rumors

2007-01-19 14:12:05

Hi Everyone

I just wanted to give you all an update on the rumors that have been posted. I spoke with Cindy Johnson at Dr. Hargroders office. She told me that Dr. Hargroder will no longer do surgery at RWMC (River West Medical Center) because River West decided to scrap the bariatric program. This is backed up by the fact that if you all read the post from Shaune she is looking for work because they did away with her job which was in the bariatric program. If it were up to Dr. Hargroder he would still be doing WLS at RWMC however, since he has no choice in the matter he and his staff will be moving to Ne Weigh in Baton Rouge, were they will be providing the same excellent service they have always provided. Cindy assured me that they (as they always have been) are still here for us. As most of us know he and his staff provided excellent after care.

I also asked her had Dr. Hargroder lost a patient she said no he had not. We did talk about one of his previous patients (a lady) that passed,I think about a year ago. I had heard about that one and as I stated before it was not related to the WLS surgery. She had a history of bowel obstructions and she went to another Dr. and he did not catch it. She continued to have problems so she then called Dr. Hargroders office and they told her to come in to the hospital but it was to far advanced and they could not save her.

So I just felt like I needed to post this information to put the rumors to rest.

Now let me say this and this is meant with the best of intentions for future patients.

We have people coming to this site that are new Patients or that are seeking to have WLS and I what them to know the truth. We have all heard the horror stories of WSL of years ago, But it is so much more advanced. I Had my surgery with Dr. Hargroder 2 years ago and in my opinion Dr. Hargroder is still the best. Others deserve, and should have the best surgeon doing their surgery. Let's not scare the folks coming to our site, reading these post, with rumors. If they are like most of us they are already nervous about it. I guess what I am saying is let's stick to the facts and support the visitors to our site and support each other.

I hope this is taken in the context it is meant.

Thanks for allowing me to post such a long message.

Bubba

If I can be of any help please do not hesitate to ask.

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] update/Herbalife info/new recipe for shakes I got

2007-01-19 10:36:36

Hi all,

Here is my Herbalife website information and my phone # to call me if you would like.

225-291-7514

www.healthforyourfreedom.com

Here is the new recipe Herbalife sent me yesterday.

- PINEAPPLE ORANGE COCONUT SHAKE -

Ingredients:

2 Scoops of Vanilla Formula 1 Shake Mix

2 Tbsps Personalized Protein Powder

1 Cup plain soy milk or nonfat milk

1 Cup frozen pineapple chunks

1/8 teaspoon coconut extract

1/4 teaspoon orange extract (or try a little orange juice)

4 Ice Cubes

Directions:

Place all ingredients in the blender and mix thoroughly until the ice cubes are completely crushed.

Optional:

Ice cubes; Tropical drink umbrella and a slice of pineapple for garnish!
Georgia DiBenedetto <georgiad40@...

Renee...EVERYTHING I ate for the first three months made me sick. Not vomiting sick, just naseous. Then, it changed. As for protein, the stuff generaly sucks! LOL You have to just keep trying different kinds/types. There are the pre-mixed bottled ones you can buy at places like GNC, there are thousands of powders you can buy on the web, or in stores, there are ready to drink types in cans, you can get those at WalMart, and of course Smoothies from Smoothie King, if you can afford it! Just keep trying, don't give up. Trish sells an Herbalife kind that tastes pretty damned good, you can buy it online or call her. I'm sure when she sees this she'll post her info...I always forget the web site info...sorry Trish! LOL My point is don't give up, keep trying...there are many more reasons OTHER THAN losing hair that we need to make sure we get our protein...muscle mass, skin health, etc. Do whatever you can to find one you can tolerate. There are lots of places on the
web that you can buy sample sizes, so you don't have to spend money (waste) on LARGE canisters of stuff that you hate. Try www.vitalady.com and www.bariatriceating.com Just keep on keeping on, don't give up, it will be worth it in the end. I know it's easy to say, but try not to compare your loss to others...we all lose at different rates, we all have different experiences with food. Just get to know YOUR body and new stomach, and go from there. As you get farther along, there are more protein choices, better choices I think. Just DON'T GET DISCOURAGED. It will get better.

Georgia

7-31-03

330/160/160

Dr. Hargroder

Vista Surgical Hospital

Georgia Kiley DiBenedetto [INLINE]

Re: [Dr_Hargroder] 8 months post op

2007-01-19 04:08:13

Laurie,

You are doing great. There is really no specific time you should reach a goal weight but it 100lbs in 8 months is great. Keep on doing what you are doing. Congradulations!

Bubba

Laurie

2007-01-18 21:34:02

Thank you, thank you. He cooks, he cleans, hes kinda cute. Hes in the picture I just put on the website. The picture is the leaders of the singles group at church.

I feel so much better about myself now. I actually look at people and not at the floor all the time. I smile lots.... I don't hide from poeple like I did before. This surgery was the best thing in the world that ever happened to me.

Laurie

2007-01-18 15:19:22

Aweome...congratulations! Best place to find a good man...church. Best of luck to you.

GA

Georgia Kiley DiBenedetto [INLINE]

Laurie

2007-01-18 08:08:27

LAURIE...YOU MET A MAN? LOLOL DO TELL GIRL!!!!!!!!!

Georgia

Georgia Kiley DiBenedetto [INLINE]

Laurie

2007-01-18 03:36:04

Yes I did..... Just a guy from church, but I have fallen head of heals :o)

Pictures

2007-01-17 19:55:25

I add some pictures too. I didn't think I had any of me before surgery and
someone just sent me one. Taylor is in front of me so you can't see all of
me, but you will get the general idea.
Laurie
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Re: [Dr_Hargroder] 3 months post opp and 90 lbs less of me

2007-01-17 17:37:07

Ron, good morning . I am very proud of you.Men are always more successful. Keep up the good work and please stay in touch.

Cindy

Re: 3 months post opp and 90 lbs less of me

2007-01-17 13:23:56

Congratulations Ron. That photo is absolutely beautiful.
Sharon

Re: I HAVE A SURGERY DATE!

2007-01-16 22:40:47

Welcome to the group! And congratulations on your surgery date. My 2
year anniversary is July 18th. I am so happy that I had the surgery.
My life is changed forever. There are many people in this group that
had surgery recently and some that are waiting for approval and some
that are "oldies" like me. Welcome, welcome.
Sharon
lap rny - 7/18/03
l15# lost

3 months post opp and 90 lbs less of me

2007-01-16 22:11:29

Hey everyone! Well it was 3 months yesterday I started my new life
and I am happy to say that there is 90 lbs less of me. For those of
you that want to take a peek, I've posted a new pick in the photo area
of my youngest son and myself on July 4th. Congrats to Laurie on her
100 lbs mark. I can't wait to hit mine. Also, congrats to Diane on
her surgery date. It's only just begun and hold on for a wonderful
ride. Renee and Mrs. Mildred if y'all are still out there, let me
know how your journeys are going. Well I must run it's 11:00 PM and
5:30 AM come early. God Bless and stay healthy.

Re: 8 months post op

2007-01-16 11:47:49

Congratulations Laurie...how exciting for you to have lost 100#!!! I hope to be
right there soon.
Debbie

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] lump

2007-01-16 06:17:21

Audrey I will keep you in my prayers for your drs visit todayt.
Hugs
Marianne
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RE: [Dr_Hargroder] LAURIE BICE

2007-01-16 03:45:31

Thanks Diane..... I don't know that I have done everything I can though. My biggest suggestion is to maybe try to find another protein with more protein in it. I know the one you like has 21grams in 8ozs, but right after surgery you aren't going to be able to drink enough of them to get all of your protein in.

It is so important, my hair is falling out from not getting enough.

Everyone here has been great and they are all so very helpful, so any questions feel free to ask.

Laurie

To all the newer members of the Losers Lounge

2007-01-15 22:40:36

Please check in and tell us how you're doing? Any problems,
questions, complaints. We know it's tough the first few weeks, but
keep up the sipping, walking and resting. Sometimes the scale doesn't
reward you like you think it should the first few week. Also, I'm
tired of all you newbies hogging up the cutest cabana boys!! Naomi

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] Checking computer

2007-01-15 10:16:39

I'm doing okay. Found a lump in my left soldier though tonight, so I'm a little
frazzled about that, but I see my onc. this Thursday. Hope everyone else is
doing good.

Re: honeymoon phase LONG

2007-01-15 02:44:29

Naomi,
Thank you for this information. There are two things I need to
improve....drinking with my meal and only eating 3 meals...no
snacks. I eat the 1000 cals but I eat all day long. I have never
drunk enough fluids because my pouch doesn't allow it. This gives me
something to work on.
Lizanne

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] I've got an idea

2007-01-15 02:43:08

Velvet thats a great idea! I just ran across this post in my email and haven't
gotten to the big groups emails yet. Did you post it in there too?
I unfortunately do not have enough time in my day to add another thing to the
list. If noone in here volunteers maybe someone in the big group would be
willing. I could add it to the database or files section and then ladies could
print it out if they wanted.
Hugs
Marianne
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Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] Taxol Chest pains?

2007-01-15 00:24:14

Kathy,
Sorry to hear about the chest pains. Please let us know what you find out when
you go to the onc. You are in my prayers.
Hugs
Marianne
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alex don't be discouraged.

2007-01-14 13:56:37

Beth,
Don't even think about being weeded out! You can do this. Has your thyroid
been checked? It is so much easier to gain weight than lose it but it is worth
it to get the surgery. I know it's hard to walk with vertigo but can you ride a
stationary bike to help get the weight off? How much do you still have to lose?
Keep a food journal if your still not losing request a consult with the nut. and
take your journal. Maybe they will have some good suggestions. YOU CAN DO THIS.
Debby
Beth Street <beth_loveslife@...
Yup, I am at Kaiser Fremont... but I might be one of the ones they are
going to weed out. This stupid vertigo has laid me flat out... and im not doing
well at eating period let alone eating healthy and on a 1200 calorie diet.. but
I am starting again from scratch on Monday and will see what happens.At the
neurologist's office, they weighed me and I had gained 20lbs in 2months... I
just cant fathom that considering I hardly ate anything.. oh well only thing I
can do now is to look forward and do my best.
Beth

opportunity to help someone who needs it now.

2007-01-14 10:05:04

The Susan Komen foundation is a splendid organization, but it serves a
limited number of people. I recently found out about a woman who is
also triple negative and needs to raise at least $20,000 for a
treatment that could save her life. (and she needs it within the
month!) Evidently, the Susan Komen foundation wouldn't help her out at
all, despite the thousands of dollars that her family has donated over
the past years.
I'd like to encourage everyone here to contribute to her, an actual
person, who needs the money now! Here is her website:
breastcancerdonate.org
Her sister is desperately trying to raise money for her. She needs to
live out of state for several months after she has a stem cell
transplantation.
Nicole

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] opportunity to help someone who needs it now.

2007-01-14 03:21:36

I had another lady complain in one of my looming groups about Komen. She said
she used to donate but found out they send money to Planned Parenthood and she
is against it so stopped and is sending elsewhere.
I was under the impression that most ALL of the money went for bc. Doesn't seem
to be the case does it!
Hugs
Marianne
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HOPE

2007-01-13 16:34:17

I know how depressing living with this disease can be. We still remain
HUMAN, and our HUMAN condition dictates that we still must work thru
these disappointments when our bodies let us down. Even when we know
there is a good possibility that heart disease or cancer is in our
genes, it is still a disappointment.........and depressing. The road
back to a modicum of health is often paved with additional
disappointments and is oft times difficult to keep moving
forward.........putting one foot ahead of the other. Sometimes you
just have to give yourself time to mourn the loss of your innocence.
Sometimes that is really hard to do.
But, tomorrow is another day..........there is hope that it will be a
better day.
Keep your head up!
Kathy

Ive had an idea 2 from Velvet

2007-01-13 10:48:26

Dear Jennifer, Marianne, Iris, Anita, Ruth and anyone else that responds later.
Ok I'll do it, I'll write it up over the next couple of weeks or so depending
on response but I need help from some of you in USA. I don't think it wants to
be too long, ideally 2 Word pages, as I think if it's too long people won't read
it or print it off. Also something that can fit into a handbag ( I think you say
purse) but something that can easilly be folded and taken with the patient, to
show to failing and poor responding oncos, to let them know we have standards,
we know what to expect and no onco is going to let us slip through the net. At
some time later maybe someone can pursue this into a National programme of
breast cancer follow up treatment then all the better but for the moment let's
get patients informed.
Without the information patients are ill equipped to challenge their health
care.
Initailly I think get something underway that is applicaple to UK and USA so i
will need some help with terminology, jargon and what I call cancer speak. Maybe
later if I am well and not suffering from keyboard cramps I'll look at NZ, Oz +
others
Marianne yes please database and files and if you are unhappy with any aspect
then I am sure you will say.
Iris thanks for your offer to help.
The first thing I need to know is what guidelines or standards of care are
current for USA. Are there USA standards or does each cancer centre adopt their
own? Send me a link, rather than me searching all day on the net for anything I
ask please, or copy and paste
First things first, what will we call it? Ideas for a title please, 'Breast
cancer follow up'
'So, you've had breast cancer' 'Breast cancer ~ what next?' or........ tell
me.
I think the order should be:-
who to consult
clinic appointments
patient records and record keeping
scans, X-rays (all types)
current treatment for er + and - prog + and - triple negs her2 receptors
blood tests and tumour markers
indwelling catheters
Further links for diet/nutrition physiotherapy/physical therapy, evidence of
relevant studies e.g. tamoxifen v arimidex
Who to consult with explanations of the various roles ~ enlighten me please ~
do you have medical oncologists, clinical oncologists, radiotherapy/radiation
oncologists or tell me who you have. Do you have cancer centres, do you just go
to your local hospital, how do you get in touch with an onco say if you were
recommended to someone ~ do you need a referral from your family doctor ~ what
is you family doctor called? Can you just ring through and book yourself an
appointment. Uk, top of the range doctor is called a consultant, next down would
be registrar, usually a specialist registrar, then registrar, then houseman or
SHO, please tell me your ranking order and what their title is please.
What role do nurses play?
Clinic appointments ~ what happens and what is expected from the patient and
doctor, how often, how long for and what happens next. Tell me what you know
Patient records ~ are you in USA always given reports of every test, scan,
copies of annotated notes and corrrespondence letters doctor to doctor? We are
not automatically given copies in Uk in the NHS system though my hospital took
the lead some years ago and we are sent copies if we want them. (BTW I am
pressing for all cancer patients to have copies of test reports)
Scans ~ big one this. Can anyone tell me how PET scan differs to CT and MRI,
anyone in the know who can describe each and it's value in diagnostics for BC
patients
Current treatment
I know a sufficient to pencil in on er+ prog+ but the negatives I have not
really researched so i need lots of help with this one please
Blood test and tumour markers. I need to get an idea of blood tests from east
to west of USA
Can anyone list the current blood tests they have, please do not post results
of your test or any personal info, then I will compare it with Uk blood testing
and if needs be write up USA and UK separately Tumour markers I am ok with.
Indwelling catheters, something about the various portacaths, picc, hickman
and any you care to mention, I know all the UK types
Further links, add to the list of those you think should be there.
Ok get me started please
As I go along I will post each section for your comments. Please be assured i
am not easily offended so if you think something doesn't read well then please
say so. It's for you by you, I am only the instigator and the typist, so speak
to me, let me know if you are unhappy with something.
LOL Velvet (UK)

just checking in

2007-01-13 05:56:13

Hi everyone,
I had a little bit of a rough day. My breakfast came back up today and I
didn't feel much like eating after that. So I've been drinking a lot of
liquids and protein. I feel better since I took a long evening nap though
and a warm shower.
On wednesday, I get my labs drawn for my 3 month dr. visit on the 25th. I
hope I've lost more weight by then. It seems to be coming off slowly!
    Darlene
RNY: 11/28/07
-42lbs

Re: Ive had an idea 2 from Velvet

2007-01-13 02:19:57

Velvet, as a stage 4 survivor here in the USA I will do my best to
help. You have a wonderful idea that is so necessary. However, to
keep it to two pages and readable, maybe this could be a small series
of posts or emails that eventually cover all critical areas at a
glance.
There is another non-adressed area that I've been thinking about and
I wonder if it could be added to the mix. I believe there may be
blood, gene and cell tests that can help zero in on which hormone and
chemo regimens might be most effective for each individual patient
without the trial and error approach now used. If these tests exist-
we probably don't hear about them much because they are not generally
covered by health plans or providers. However, I think we should be
given the option of paying for them and also for scans and other
treatments when they are not covered by normal protocols. So
providing average costs (in pounds and dollars) for tests and
treatments might also be helpful. Some procedures may not be as
expensive as we think and even if they are-- they might be worth
doing!
Best Regards
Pam Marks
Los Angeles, CA

Re: [WLS Friendship &amp; Support] just checking in

2007-01-12 14:28:21

Hi Darlene,
Sorry you had a rough morning, but glad you are doing better now. Let us know
how your 3 month checkup goes!
Pat
Darlene <dashcraft1@...
Hi everyone,
I had a little bit of a rough day. My breakfast came back up today and I
didn't feel much like eating after that. So I've been drinking a lot of
liquids and protein. I feel better since I took a long evening nap though
and a warm shower.
On wednesday, I get my labs drawn for my 3 month dr. visit on the 25th. I
hope I've lost more weight by then. It seems to be coming off slowly!
    Darlene
RNY: 11/28/07
-42lbs

Re: opportunity to help someone who needs it now.--yes let's do it as a group

2007-01-12 11:00:06

What a great idea! I'd much rather help someone personally anyway
instead of an organization that uses the money for administration and
promotion costs. How about if we all gave just $5 each? There are
about 300 members--so $1500 could really help her.
Monica

Re: [WLS Friendship &amp; Support] Honeymoon perio

2007-01-12 09:15:30

Hi Lizanne,
I was told our window of opportunity was 12-18 months too. I was also told
to have between 80-85 grms of protein, 80-120grms of carbs and less than 30
grms of fat per day. I've also heard the longer out you are the slower you
will loose, you still loose but slowly.
My only advice is the obvious, just keep plugging on, exercise 5 x's a week,
drink your water... maybe try to weigh yourself only once a week, I don't
know if I could do that, but when I slow down, I'm going to try
it. Hopefully that will help me, at least mentally :o)
Hopefully when the weather improves we can get outside, it will help us feel
better too, I hope so :o)
Good luck,
Edie
302/292/249/150

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] I'm back!! Again

2007-01-12 07:19:21

Thank you for your support. I've had problems getting on line. A week ago
Sunday night I broke my foot. I spent last week on the main floor of our
townhouse, the computer is upstairs. Today, I just decided it was time to get
on and get rid of all my emails. The foot is another set back. There is always
something with me. My husband sais we'd better laugh or we would not stop
crying!!
I'm doing great.
charles svihlik <moochie1@...
Deb,
I am sorry to hear you have been so sick. Sometimes we have to do things that
others may not agree with but its your choice and if you are at peace with your
decision I wish you the best. I will keep you in my prayers. Hopefully they will
come up with newer and better drugs that can help you.
Hugs
Marianne
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college &amp; Quilting

2007-01-11 20:57:32

Mary,
I was thinking about in case you decided you didn't want that job.
You could always take a culinary class to learn how to cook better
food for WLS people. Then you could set up your own website and
charge for menus and recipes. See, I'm always looking out for you,
just in case.
And learning...I think there is nothing as entertaining as learning
something new. Which brings me off topic a little. Some of us are
in another group. We were supposed to learn how to quilt from a
member who no longer really is involved here. I was wondering if any
of the newer people might be interested in continuing our education.
We have already had a fabric swap. We are trying to find an outlet
to direct our new addiction. Is there anyone who would like to teach
us to quilt? Thanks.
Lizanne

Re: [WLS Friendship &amp; Support] Still Sick....

2007-01-11 11:51:59

((((((((((Amy))))))))))) here is a hug .. keep pushing the fluids and flush it
out of your system. . If you are still sick tomorrow and things get posponed. .
(which i hope doesnt happen for you) Its just your Surgeon wanting you to have a
SAFE surgery. . You should be healthy going into this. .if you are sick then it
will only make things worse. . but i have my fingers and toes, and legs and arms
and eyeballs crossed for you . .. (boy is it hard to type!!!) LOL Best of luck
tomorrow!!
~*Sharon XOXO*~
"THIN feels better than FAT tastes!"
Lap RNY 7/30/07
HW242**SW232**CW148**GW125-130

Topics on Threads

2007-01-11 09:01:33

Everyone-
Please try to be more mindful about changing thread name when you switch to a
new topic.
It can be hurtful to others when they post for one reason, and people swing to a
new topic rather than replying to theirs.
Thanks,
~Ally~
Atlanta, GA
Lap RNY 7/12/07
251/237/174/130
HW/SW/CW/GW

opportunity to help someone who needs it now.--yes let's do it as a group

2007-01-11 01:29:20

You have to remember that not everyone can afford $5 with the high cost of
treatment plus there are many members that are no longer with us for one reason
or another.
Hugs
Marianne
Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life
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Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancer

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] Ive had an idea 2 from Velvet

2007-01-10 15:10:22

Velvet since you thought of it you can name it what you think would be best. I
agree it shouldn't be too long. I have to go back and see who volunteered in the
big group. Maybe the 2 of you can get together.
With keeping up with the two bc groups plus the others that I own and ones I
belong to I am stretched pretty thin but will do my best to read over anything
and give any comments if necessary. You are very thorough Velvet so I doubt
there will be much to comment on! :-)
Hugs
Marianne
Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life
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Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancer

Welcome back Sharon!

2007-01-10 12:12:07

It's good to see you! It was so quiet around here without you.
~Ally~
Atlanta, GA
Lap RNY 7/12/07
251/237/174/130
HW/SW/CW/GW

INTRODUCING..... CHECK OUT ALBUM

2007-01-10 10:02:07

Hi everyone, my grand.... made an appearance today at the photographer.
My son and his girlfriend just came back from the 3D Baby Vue place and
got some awesome ultrasounds. If you'd like to see what we're having go
to my album, Judy R.'s Journey. Enjoy.
Judy

tryin my best

2007-01-10 07:40:09

So I am feeling better just a bit tired...I started puree tonight and
it was good. It will take time to get use to it I believe but I will
get there. I am surprised how tired I am. I have a harder time
dealing with the seperation from my husband. I have a very hard time
not slippin into depression, trying to keep a level head or keep my
head up at all. When I came home to an husbandless house I had to
watch mom pack up his things...and damn it was terrible. Everyday is a
challenge. But thanks for all the suggestions and thoughts. I've
missed you all. I will post again soon and try to keep up. I have a
recheck on Thursday.
Love always
Jess

LIZ ALLY PICS

2007-01-09 19:08:58

HI THERE, I UPLOADED SOME PICS PLS APPROVE. THANKS.

Re: [WLS Friendship &amp; Support] tryin my best

2007-01-09 14:49:46

Jess glad to hear from you. Even if you can't catch up w the posts just check in
and let us know how YOU are doing.
Take care
Judy
Friends Are Our Angels on Earth
(No. California)
262/246
HW/CW

Happy Birthday Lizanne!

2007-01-09 07:08:37

I wish for you a happy birthday full of wonderful surprises and health and
happiness for the coming year!
Hugs,
Darlene

velvet's idea ~one of the items

2007-01-09 00:39:15

Scans
With all scans you may be injected with a tracer to highlight areas of your
body. The tracer can be a dye or a short lived, tiny dose of a radioactive
substance. You will not be radioactive afterwards but usually it is recommended
that you stay away from small children and pregnant women for the first 24
hours. Check with your clinic
X rays
These are used as a quick and inexpensive diagnostic procedure for bones,
particularly chest and other organs to detect damage or disease. They are not as
accurate as scanning.
Bone scans
These detect abnormalities of the bone. The abnormailities include arthritis,
wear and tear, cancer and other diseases or damage of the bone.
Usually an injection is given some two to four hours before the scanning
process.
Dexa or bone density scan.
These detect the density of bone. Often used to diagnose osteoporosis. A
sample area is usually scanned, one hip joint and part of the pelvis.
Ct scan
These scans show horizontal slices of the tissues and examine tissue density.
Abnormalities can be detected this way.
PET scan
These scans examine the anotomic and metabolic structure of organs and other
tissues.
It can tell you what is going on biochemically and what the structure is.
Considered the most acurate diagnostic tool to differentiate between benign and
malignant tissue.
MRI
The noisiest of all the scans. MRI can be clearer than CT scanning, can
measure blood flow through structures, particulary useful in brain and the
nervous system as well as detecting cancers. MRI uses magnetic and radio waves
not radiation.
Costs of scans range from $850 to $4000 USA £450 - £2000 UK
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comments please
LOL Velvet (UK)

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] THANK YOU TO ALL,

2007-01-08 20:31:16

My husband had a car upholsterer make what we called his throne. It was 3
inches of heavy foam covered with material for his seat and another three inches
covered for the back of the wheel chair. He even made him a pouch for over the
back of the seat to carry magazines, and other items he needed regularly. As he
lost weight and his butt got bonier so the cushion was much more comfortable
than sitting on his bones all day....georgia
r1fefe <r1fefe@...
WILL TAKE YOUR SUGSTIONS
INTO CONSIDERATION. AS I WALKED FROM MY BEDROOM INTO THE KITCHEN THIS
MORNING, I HEARD A
CRACKELING SOUND COMING FROM MY LOWER BACK, NO PAIN. MY CHEMO NURSE
TOLD ME NOT TO WALK, JUST SIT IN THE WHEEL CHAIR INORDER TO GET
AROUND, BUT I GET PAINS IN MY
LOWER BACK IF I SIT FOR TOO LONG. MAYBE I SHOULD JUST HANG FROM THE
CEILING IN ORDER TO GET AROUND THE HOUSE :-)
HAVE A HEALTHY WEEKEND,
ROSIE S

Mixed subjects here from Velvet

2007-01-08 15:40:43

Hi
I read some posts about Aromatase inhibitors (AIs) thought I would share my
experience.
I have taken the range of all the AIs now, over the last 8 years, Tamoxifen
firstly then, arimidex, faslodex, aromasin, letrozole and have simply changed
drugs as each failed or started to fail (I am stage IV) I have never been
completely off the drugs until now and it's only because my chemo was delayed
that I have been off for three weeks.
I read a post where someone came off for a week and really found no difference
to the side effects, well, I could say exactly the same about one week. Now off
by three has made a tremendous difference. I don't have pain in my knees, I
don't feel sick daily as I did before, my apetite is improved, it's normal now,
my hips are better than before but big site in my trochanter (very top of upper
thigh bone) so wouldn't ever be completely better. I sleep better too. I do have
hot sweats mostly in the morning but then the AIs aren't mopping up the
estrogen. I just generally feel better all round. So the onc who said if you
haven't changed in a week then you are unlikely to (or words to that effect) is
wrong in my experience ~ it has taken three for me to see any change. I do have
some arthritis and I do have weakened bones by virtue of the fact that the
cancer is in most of the bones and the reduced estrogen due to taking AIs.
About the weakened bones because of taking AIs, (AIs mop up estrogen (that
isn't technically the way it goes about it but it will do for now) well, I feel
it is unlikely that the body, in one week can strengthen them again, even by
several weeks or even months.
Osteoporosis (reduced bone density) comes about from years of reduced estrogen
and other drugs like steroids, (estrogen adds to bone density and that is why
(as well as other menopuasal sypmptoms) women were given HRT but evidence now
supports that HRT can increase the risk of breast cancer).
Various drug companies, seeing this niche in the market, jumped on the
bandwagon and produced a bisphosphonate (BIS) like Fosamax, but others too and
given IV for BC to bones.
Now it has emerged that there is significant risk from BIS causing
osteonecrosis of the jawbone (ONJ) (I have that too) but ONJ seems to be linked
in the main with the potency and duration of the therapy.
I read somewhere that after 31 doses of BIS you are at risk of ONJ but I
couldn't find the evidence for that statement however, it is seen in people who
have had many doses and had the more potent drugs and indeed I am one who had a
potent BIS and a duration of over 5 years, at 4 weekly intervals. At that rate I
have had more than double (5years X 13per year = 65 doses) (ONJ is also seen in
people who haven't taken BIS under the conditions above and is seen in patients
after taking oral prepartions too for much shorter periods + many other
scenarios)
A friend of mine was having an IV four times a year and is so far good, has
had this now for three years (=12 doses) had orthopantograms (revolving X-rays
around jaw/skull) and Dexa scans (measures bone density) and her bone density is
normal now and she is stopping the BIS for two years, then another Dexa scan
before proceeding again. (No use taking a drug if you don't need it.)
(I recently went thoroughly over my repeat prescription and all the 'over the
counter drugs' I take (because of going on to chemo) and I found, (why I had
missed it all these years I don't know) I have been taking folic acid for 11
years and no one knew why ~ I certainly didn't. In the pack of tablets I now
read not to take if you have any malignancy ~ well I have for 11 years too.
Anyhow that has been stopped.)(maybe re-check what you are taking?)
So all in all it is difficult to know exactly what to take and what not to
take, everything has to be weighed up and balanced. If you need to take
tamoxifen or AIs then without doubt bone density will be reduced. Some to a
smaller and some to a greater degree. Calcium can be taken but must be taken
with Vit D to synthesise the calcium but the optimen age for increasing bone
density is around 12-13 years old however, that doesn't mean to say you can't
improve the bone density in later years because it can. If you need to take AIs
then, and I hate to say this but joint pain seems to be a significant adverse
event ( English medical method of describing side effects! arrrggghhh!!!) and
ideally treat this with the analgesia that works for you. Of course, not
everyone gets this reaction as we all react differently.
If you are offered BIS then ask you prescriber what he/she knows about ONJ
(still after 7/8 years doctors know little about it) get a bone density scan
before and after a year or two, compromise on 18 months if you like and stop
taking BIS the very moment your bone density is up to level. Ask for the minimum
dose, one therapy protocol is 4 IVs a year, using pamidronate (Aredia) rather
than zoledronic acid (Zometa)
In the end you have to balance, preventing the cancer from comimg back with
maintaining your bone density and preventing bone loss and possible fractures
and all that goes with those.
To be informed is to have power, some times you have to trade one symptom for
another, very, no, extrenmely hard to do, along with all the emotional aspects
of living with or after cancer. but knowledge is power and remember it is you
that pays in the end not the doctor, surgeon or nurse. Read enough to
understand, the Net can be a powerful tool as long as you read in context, look
for evidenced studies, although you may find conflicting results but then you
can discuss these with your medic or here with people who are 'on the shop
floor' we are the ones that take the drugs. But you can't make choices unless
you are fully informed. For new members or I should say those new to BC, doctors
are only human, can and do make mistakes, (I was once given a drug for prostate
cancer, didn't realise what was in the pack until I got home but as always I
read the info before taking ) ask about the drugs offered to you, ask for more
information, discuss why you/they think a, would be
better for you than b, you can make decisions for yourself even at early
stages, even with surgeons though surgeons are a different breed.
I hope the above isn't too confusing and sorry if I lecture, I've written too
many papers and lab reports over the years and go into 'lab mode' every now and
again!!!
CT and Bone scans together.
I have just checked my scans and see I have had 14 CT and 14 bone scans on the
same day. Injection for bone scan then off to CT for whole body CT scan then
back for the bone scan. Also 3 times I have had bone scans, Ct scans and MRI
scans on the same day, each with an injection of contrast medium and a drink of
whatever and no ill effects at all.
Hope this helps
LOL Velvet (UK)

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] velvet's idea ~one of the items

2007-01-08 11:02:27

It looks good to me Velvet.
Hugs
Marianne
Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life
http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html
Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancer

Re: [WLS Friendship &amp; Support] INTRODUCING..... CHECK OUT ALBUM

2007-01-08 03:02:52

Judy,
I love the 3D pictures they are so cool. Did you only get stills or did they
make a DVD also? I haven't looked at your pictures so I don't know what you're
having yet but I'll take a peek.
Debby
"Judy R." <losingforlife08@...
Hi everyone, my grand.... made an appearance today at the photographer.
My son and his girlfriend just came back from the 3D Baby Vue place and
got some awesome ultrasounds. If you'd like to see what we're having go
to my album, Judy R.'s Journey. Enjoy.
Judy

Velvet's glossary 3

2007-01-07 20:04:20

Patient records and record keeping
During your breast cancer journey you will have many examinations, tests,
scans etc.
Recording whom you see, when you see, what you ask, what you are told, results
of tests, etc. can be to your advantage.
Take a list of questions you want to ask and note down the response.
Ideally have someone with you who can write answers for you or do this
yourself.
Ask for copies of the results. If you dont understand them ask someone who
can explain to you.
If you are unable to get copies maybe you need to ask why but any copies you
do receive ideally should be kept in a folder, where you can refer to them at a
later date.
If you change your doctor, take any relevant records to be copied ~ ensure
they are returned to you.
In UK NHS hospitals it is not normal practice to receive copies, though some
hospitals now offer this service.
You can telephone your UK hospital and enquire about getting copies of your
hospital notes/records.
Apply to the hospital with the relevant fee and state your full name address,
date of birth and your patient number.
Private healthcare in UK usually send you copies, if you are not receiving
them you need to ask for them.
I probably need more USA info on here so tell me please if/what needs to be
added
LOL Velvet (UK)

hanging in there

2007-01-07 18:32:03

I had stage 2 breast cancer and went into remission for almost 6 years
then in Oct of 06 I found out that I now have stage iv bone cancer and
will have to take medicine for the rest of my life. There is always
things that come up and I am now doing good but feel lost for some
reason. Hopefully someone out in this wide world understands how I
feel. I would love to hear from other people and chat some.

velvet's glossary 4

2007-01-07 07:57:05

Clinic appointments
If you are given a hospital patient number make a note of this even though it
is likely to be on your appointment card. Your number is vital for finding you
on the computer.
Always attend your clinic appointments. If you need to cancel do so as soon as
possible.
Arrive in plenty of time.
If you need blood tests before your consultation ask how much earlier you need
to arrive.
Remember some blood tests can be run through an analysing monitor and take
time before results come through.
Go prepared with a list of written questions. Ideally take someone with you
who can note down the responses or write them down yourself. Make a note of whom
you see.
On your first clinic appointment you are likely to have a medical history
taken, Ideally take notes of illnesses, hospital visits/admissions, surgery,
scans and other tests and the results if known. Ensure you have some indication
of dates. Your notes should include any allergies and any particular phobias you
may have and a list of medication and any supplements you purchase yourself.
Thereafter at clinic visits you will be asked for your recent health history
and this is the time you need to report any problems or concerns.
You may have a physical examination, you may be asked to have further blood
tests, other tests, x-rays or scans. I you have any concerns about these raise
the issue with the doctor at this time.
Ask when the results should be available and how soon you may have them.
Ask if you can have copies of your records.
Ensure you have your follow up appointment.
Ask who you may contact should you have any concerns in the meantime.
Comments please LOL Velvet (UK)

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] velvet's glossary 4

2007-01-06 22:39:49

Looks good velvet.
Hugs
Marianne
Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life
http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html
Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancer

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] hanging in there

2007-01-06 21:54:52

Welcome to the group. I am sorry to hear that your cancer has spread. It takes
someone thats been in the same situation to understand.
I am cofounder of the 'big group" this group is our sister group and has mostly
stage IV ladies with a few of us that aren't stage IV but have friend when
everyone was in the big group and we like to keep up with how they are doing.
Its been kind of quiet in here. We do have some Stage IV ladies in the big
group, which is VERY active. If you would like to join us over there also we
would love to have you.
Here is the link:

hiya Joan

2007-01-06 09:24:34

*gasp!!* Joan??? "Other" list??? you mean we are not the only one??????
geeeeez... now I am totally disillusioned....
Can you believe it is only two days until my surgery??? When we had lunch
together recently, my surgery was months away!! LOL
Pat
Joan Morgan <Bdrcolliez@...
Hi Mike,
I am glad you are here. Your posts on the other list were a big
inspiration for me before I had my surgery last summer. Your pictures
are great. What an amazing transformation.
Joan

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] Velvet's glossary 3

2007-01-06 06:04:21

Looks good Velvet. I know at our hospital you can ask for a copy of your films
that have been taken if you change drs or hospitals or if a particular dr would
like see previous scans, xrays etc. Our first set is free. If you happen to
loose them then there is a charge.
Hugs
Marianne
Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life
http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html
Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancer

glossary 5

2007-01-06 04:54:43

Indwelling catheters.
You may have had blood tests taken from or a chemical injected into your hand
or your arm.
Some people have crooked veins, deep, small, thin-walled, that makes it a
difficult task to inject or aspirate (draw off). Sometimes the veins are Ok for
a while then become scarred, become increasingly difficult to use, bruise easily
or become blown a term that describes the walls of the vein that have given
way, in that particular access area.
Taking bloods can be painful when accessing, if you have a needle phobia or
feel too much pain, inform staff. There is a local anaesthetic cream that can be
applied to the insertion area. This cream needs to be applied for about 40
minutes.
EMLA is just one type of the various local anaesthetic creams.
A needle with a butterfly attachment is often called a cannula or catheter.
Cannulating is the term used for accessing a vein for treatment.
If you have difficulty with your veins there are other methods of accessing
your veins.
Indwelling catheters are an access point that is created surgically with a
special device.
Portacaths are available for most patients.
It is a port with a titanium one-way valve inside that is inserted, usually on
the upper part of the chest, sometimes on the arm, with a thin tube attached
that is fed down into a vein in your heart. The port remains under the skin, can
be felt, can be seen slightly, especially in thinner patients and is accessed by
a special needle. EMLA cream can be applied before accessing.
A port can be inserted at the time of any other surgery, provided a surgeon
experienced in the insertion is available or can be inserted at other times. It
is carried out under general anaesthetic, sedation or local anaesthetic. You own
preferences regarding anaesthesia should be made known when deciding to have a
port.
With a port you can swim, shower, and bathe etc.
Insertion of this device carries risks from the general anaesthesia; possible
lung puncture at the time of the insertion procedure and it can become infected.
General observation of the port area for the first couple of days after
accessing should be made. You nurse will give you further details. Sometimes the
device fails to work and has to be replaced. The ports life span is about four
years. All the devices here require flushing at regular intervals. Your nurse
will give you further information.
PICC lines
These are an access point to a vein in the arm and have an access tube on the
outside.
Hickman lines are similar but usually have a tube on the outside area on your
lower chest.
Both of the above are becoming rare as ports take over however, they may be
used for patients who cannot have a port inserted. Both the Picc and Hickman
have greater risks of infection, showering and bathing is difficult, as the area
must be kept dry.
Comments please LOL Velvet (UK)

Re: Happy Birthday Lizanne!

2007-01-05 21:52:10

Thank you Darlene,
This year almost has to be better than last year. So far I am
healthier and lighter. I only have my achy knees left and my PCP has
not taken me completely off my BP meds, but he should. He has
lessened the dose greatly, so that now my BP averages out to be about
106/61. As I get close to the end of the prescription, I will stop
taking it and take my BP every day to see if taking a BP makes sense
or is it just an old habit. The knee pain will never go away. I had
hoped that it would lessen, but so far I have not noticed much of a
change. I have only lost 67 lbs. so maybe after the next 60 I'll see
something. I realise that they won't get cured by losing weight, but
I thought I would feel some improvement.
You are at the stage that I think I am just about getting over. The
stage where everything revolves around food. All the planning, and
reading labels, trying new foods, figuring out if you have had enough
protein. You are right, so much to think about and it all revolves
around food. I am beginning to move past that and I am 5 months since
surgery.
Your face looks a lot thinner in your after picture. I believe that
most of us lose weight from the top down, so you just have to be
patient, but the "thinness" will reach your belly. That is where we
need to lose because of all the statistic showing that the larger the
waist, the bigger the chance of heart issues. Keep up the good work,
and I am sure we will be rewarded for our efforts.
Lizanne

Re: File - New Member Questionnaire.txt

2007-01-05 14:03:07

Find me counting Calories and logging Excercise at www.TheDailyPlate.com 

Thats right, its me again ------

Glossary 3, 4, 5. ~ comments please

2007-01-05 09:54:32

Hi folks,
I have written three of the glossary entries today so I am turning off the
computer now until tomorrow, please read and comment, tell me what needs adding,
changing, deleting etc.
I must watch Barbra Streisand in Funny Lady, so signing off for 24 hours to
rest my fingers.
LOL Velvet (UK)

Re: [Stage IV Breast Cancer] glossary 5

2007-01-04 23:48:41

Looks good to me Velvet.
Hugs
Marianne
Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life
http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html
Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancer

Hitler (aka Attila)

2007-01-04 21:06:16

Yesterday I was still soooo sore from my Monday workout with my
personal trainer (named above), so when he said he had leave work early
instead of working out I was soooo relieved. UNTIL... he got the
brilliant idea to do the workout during lunchtime instead!! I
whimpered and whined and begged and pleaded to just do an upper body
workout